Moments of Solitude

Moments of Solitude

I recently took a trip with all the girls in my family. It’s an annual event, usually 2-3 days and within driving distance for all of us. This year’s destination was the Lake of the Ozarks. We didn’t have a lot of plans, but we stayed near a large outlet mall, so the first thing we did after checking into the hotel was check out the mall. Actually, my two sisters didn’t even make it to the hotel first. They had to stop to shop for purses.

It’s a beautiful mall. Perhaps I should clarify, since what’s beautiful to one doesn’t define beauty to another. I’m referring to the design. I’m not much of a shopper, but if I’m going to shop, I prefer a neighborhood feel. It helps me not to be overwhelmed by the size and scope of the shopping area. I think it helps with traffic, too. The people seem to be in neighborhoods instead of crammed together as if on a New York City sidewalk. It was hot the day we arrived, and while a lot of people weren’t walking around, the parking lots and roads were packed with drivers. I wasn’t among the bustle of the crowds much, since I played chauffeur to transport everyone between the stores of choice…but the traffic itself was enough crowd for me.

The next afternoon, my daughter, niece, and I went to a local state park to hike. The trail was only wide enough for us to walk single file and was barely discernible in many areas. At one point, we had to completely stop and look around to find the next blue marker, indicating the trail. As hot as it was outside, we were somewhat sheltered in the shade of the trees. We were far enough from the road that we heard no cars. We were surrounded by the sounds of wind whispering through trees and books. At one point, we heard a deer crash through the brush.

About halfway through our hike, my daughter commented, “What a difference there is between the people at the outlet mall and here in the woods.”

A difference, indeed. And personally, I welcomed the solitude. Sure, I enjoy people, but there’s something about a few moments of quiet that energize me. I know…we’re all different and some of you reading this are energized by people and feel awkward when alone.

I guess it’s that I’m really never alone. In the woods, I had my daughter and niece with me. And I was surrounded by the gorgeous creation of God. No matter where I am, God is with me. No matter where you are today, look for God. You might be in a crowd or isolated. In a hectic, mournful, or glorious time of life. You might be uncertain or sure-footed. God is there, too. Sometimes you just need to close your eyes and ears to the sights and sounds of everyday life and savor a few moments of solitude with God.

My whole being wants to be with the living God. Psalm 84:2

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