Invest In Your Legacy

“Here the saying is true, ‘One person plants, and another harvests.’ I sent you to harvest a crop that you did not work on. Others did the work, and you get to finish up their work.” Many of the Samaritans in that town believed in Jesus because of what the woman said: “He told me everything I ever did.” (John 4:37-39)

Bill Gaither wanted a piece of land to build a house in Alexandria, Indiana, the town where he had grown up. He noticed a piece south of town where cattle grazed and learned it belonged to a 92-year-old retired banker named Mr. Yule. Mr. Yule owned a lot of land in the area, but he wasn’t planning to sell any of it. Bill and his wife Gloria decided to personally visit him. Bill shares the story in I Almost Missed the Sunset.”

“He looked at us over the top of his bifocals. I introduced myself and told him we were interested in a piece of his land.

“Not selling,” he said pleasantly. “Promised it to a farmer for grazing.” Then he said, “What’d you say your name was?”

“Gaither. Bill Gaither.”

“Hmmm. Any relation to Grover Gaither?”

“Yes, sir. He was my granddad.”

Mr. Yule put down his paper and removed his glasses. “Interesting. Grover Gaither was the best worker I ever had on my farm. Full day’s work for a day’s pay. So honest. What’d you say you wanted?”

I told him again.

“Let me do some thinking on it, then come back and see me.”

I came back within the week, and Mr. Yule sold me the property.

Three decades later I said to my son Benjy, “You’ve had this wonderful place to grow up through nothing that you’ve done, but because of the good name of a great-granddad you never met.”

How did people who came before you prepare the way? Consider more than your biological family.

How are you preparing the way for those who come after you?

My parents grew up in a small farming community in central Illinois. They built relationships because people in the community relied on each other. They trusted each other, watched out for each other, and helped each other. They worked fields side-by-side, lent and borrowed equipment, and lived through trials and tragedies together.

When my parents had been married for 45 years, my sisters and I planned a surprise party. It was a wonderful party. They were thrilled to see so many friends from their decades together. They hadn’t seen some people in years. Others, they lived alongside daily. With each turn, as they looked around the room, they were greeted by another smiling face full of memories.

After the celebration had been going for a couple hours, a friend and I were talking. He and I had been friends since birth, because our parents were friends, as well as our grandparents. The family farms were only a couple miles from each other. We shared weddings, births and funerals. Looking around at the multitude of friends, circles overlapping circles, my friend reflected, “You know the sad thing is, we – our generation – probably will not get to experience this when we’re our parents’ age. We’re too busy to make the depth and extent of friendships they have.”

I’m not saying it’s impossible. In fact, if anyone will have a 45th anniversary celebration with extensive circles of friends, it will be this particular friend, but I completely understand what he was saying. In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we often skirt around and skim over the importance of long-term relationship-building. Our relationships can use more intention and attention. Our relationships can be bumped up on the scale of priorities.

Who are you investing in, and who are you allowing – even inviting – to invest in you?

It’s not just about who you’ll call in the best and worst times of life. It’s about who you’ll call, drive to, sit with and sacrifice for during daily life.

Consider the people surrounding you.

Are you focused more on short-term benefits or long-term investment?

Are the people by your side going to be by your side in 10, 25, 50 years?

Life changes. People move. Interests change. Transitions are part of every person’s life. But you might see life as so transitory that you’ve become comfortable in the transition instead of investing in the long-term possibilities.

Many people avoid investing money because they’re overwhelmed with the amount they’ll need. They can’t fathom such a sacrifice.

Are you doing the same with relationships?

Investing even the smallest amounts of money will accumulate into a growing investment.

Surely, you have time, energy and resources to invest in growing relationships.

Encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:11

Pure Growth: Why Are You Standing Here?

Jesus said to them, “The Father is the only One who has the authority to decide dates and times. These things are not for you to know. But when the Holy Spirit comes to you, you will receive power. You will be my witnesses—in Jerusalem, in all of Judea, in Samaria, and in every part of the world.”

After he said this, as they were watching, he was lifted up, and a cloud hid him from their sight. As he was going, they were looking into the sky. Suddenly, two men wearing white clothes stood beside them. They said, “Men of Galilee, why are you standing here looking into the sky? Jesus, whom you saw taken up from you into heaven, will come back in the same way you saw him go. (Acts 1:7-11)

It’s easy to get caught up in the moment – or season. God gives us Scripture to reveal himself to us, teach us his principles, and equip us to live in his will. God speaks to us in many ways through his Word.

He gives us facts. The Father is the only One who has the authority to decide dates and times. These things are not for you to know. We can try to figure things out for ourselves. We can try to analyze the times and reasons for seasons and situations in our lives, but only God has the authority to decide such details. It’s clear we’re not to know everything that he knows. He gives us what we’re supposed to know. We should always be open to him giving us knowledge and wisdom and readily accept and apply what he gives us. What he doesn’t give us, we’re not supposed to have.

He gives us instruction. But when the Holy Spirit comes to you, you will receive power. You will be my witnesses—in Jerusalem, in all of Judea, in Samaria, and in every part of the world. God tells us what we’re supposed to do. He gives us direction in and toward our purpose. God wants our steps to fit into the ones he has planned for us. He wants us to desire his will so intently that we will look for the way he has prepared and be bold enough to follow regardless of our trepidation or preferences.

He gives us reassurance. After he said this, as they were watching, he was lifted up, and a cloud hid him from their sight. As he was going, they were looking into the sky. We’re not perfect, and God knows we need his reassurance in our humanness. He provided many accounts of people who have been deeply devoted to him but not always responded in model ways. The apostles knew Jesus personally as a flesh-and-blood man. Jesus looked into their eyes, touched their shoulders, and taught them with his words and actions. He told them multiple times what would happen to him, yet their focus wasn’t on what he had just directed them to do. Their focus was on the immediate. We can relate. We want to see and touch proof. We don’t want to feel isolated. God knew we’d need reassurance.

He gives us conviction. Suddenly, two men wearing white clothes stood beside them. They said, “Men of Galilee, why are you standing here looking into the sky?” God knows we need him to speak authority into our lives. Left to ourselves, we might think we can come to the right conclusions, but we’ll usually get off track, stay in one place, or run in circles. When God speaks through his Word, angels, visions, teaching, and prayers, he always speaks with authority. The Holy Spirit shares God’s truth with us. He speaks to us internally, so we don’t have to rely on external influences. He challenges us through difficult questions that help us realize where we are spiritually and what we need to do to grow into a better place. We can ignore the God’s voice, but we can never avoid his presence.

He gives us promise. Jesus, whom you saw taken up from you into heaven, will come back in the same way you saw him go. We can have hope because of God’s promises. We never need to doubt what God says will happen, because he doesn’t contradict what he says and what he does. God’s promises might not be fulfilled in exactly the way or time we expect and want, but our expectations don’t change God’s promises. God will do what he says he will do – every word and every detail. When we are faithful, we will see the fulfillment of God’s promises, either on earth or in eternity.

As we complete the Pure Growth study, let’s commit to inviting God to invade our lives with his facts, instruction, reassurance, conviction, and promise.

Consider and share your hopes to grow in one or more of these areas.

We need God to accept the spiritual seasons in our lives. Only God has the perspective to give us exactly what we need when we need it. Only God knows how our past season has prepared us for this one. Only God knows what’s necessary in our present season to prepare us for the next one. Only God knows the details of people’s lives who prepared a legacy for us and those for whom we’re preparing a legacy. Only God knows how the details we know of and those we don’t are weaving together for his purpose.

There’s much that only God can do and be, but there’s much expected of us as well. We must seek him. We must trust him. We must know him. We must accept his guidance. We must wisely use his provision. We must love as he loves. We must serve as he models. We must become less so he can become more in our lives. We must accept that our lives here on earth are brief, and they are pointless without a relationship with him.

It has been an honor to share this season of life with you. May you continue to recognize and accept your journey of God’s pure purpose. Jesus prayed for his followers before he was arrested and crucified for you and me. Let his words soak into you today. Let his words challenge you to live today giving all glory to God.

After Jesus said these things, he looked toward heaven and prayed, “Father, the time has come. Give glory to your Son so that the Son can give glory to you. You gave the Son power over all people so that the Son could give eternal life to all those you gave him. And this is eternal life: that people know you, the only true God, and that they know Jesus Christ, the One you sent. Having finished the work you gave me to do, I brought you glory on earth. And now, Father, give me glory with you; give me the glory I had with you before the world was made.

I showed what you are like to those you gave me from the world. They belonged to you, and you gave them to me, and they have obeyed your teaching. Now they know that everything you gave me comes from you. I gave them the teachings you gave me, and they accepted them. They knew that I truly came from you, and they believed that you sent me. I am praying for them. I am not praying for people in the world but for those you gave me, because they are yours. All I have is yours, and all you have is mine. And my glory is shown through them. I am coming to you; I will not stay in the world any longer. But they are still in the world. Holy Father, keep them safe by the power of your name, the name you gave me, so that they will be one, just as you and I are one. While I was with them, I kept them safe by the power of your name, the name you gave me. I protected them, and only one of them, the one worthy of destruction, was lost so that the Scripture would come true.

I am coming to you now. But I pray these things while I am still in the world so that these followers can have all of my joy in them. I have given them your teaching. And the world has hated them, because they don’t belong to the world, just as I don’t belong to the world. I am not asking you to take them out of the world but to keep them safe from the Evil One. They don’t belong to the world, just as I don’t belong to the world. Make them ready for your service through your truth; your teaching is truth. I have sent them into the world, just as you sent me into the world. For their sake, I am making myself ready to serve so that they can be ready for their service of the truth.

I pray for these followers, but I am also praying for all those who will believe in me because of their teaching. Father, I pray that they can be one. As you are in me and I am in you, I pray that they can also be one in us. Then the world will believe that you sent me. I have given these people the glory that you gave me so that they can be one, just as you and I are one. I will be in them and you will be in me so that they will be completely one. Then the world will know that you sent me and that you loved them just as much as you loved me.

Father, I want these people that you gave me to be with me where I am. I want them to see my glory, which you gave me because you loved me before the world was made. Father, you are the One who is good. The world does not know you, but I know you, and these people know you sent me. I showed them what you are like, and I will show them again. Then they will have the same love that you have for me, and I will live in them.” (John 17)

Pure Growth: But Now You Know

But now you know the true God. Really, it is God who knows you. So why do you turn back to those weak and useless rules you followed before? Do you want to be slaves to those things again? You still follow teachings about special days, months, seasons, and years. I am afraid for you, that my work for you has been wasted. Galatians 4:9-11

But now you know…

These four words seem so simple, but they cause pause. Faith changes things. Knowing God changes perspective, priorities, and behavior. Knowing God realizes God knows you. Knowing God involves moving forward.

In these verses, Paul is warning followers to not turn back.

What is behind you that you need to refuse to return to in order to move forward?

Our pasts brought us to our presents, but we need to fully live our presents in order to get to our futures. The past might be comfortable, because we established habits – and those habits have not always been healthy. We might have even thought they were helpful and productive at the time, but once we assume God’s perspective through our faithful relationship with him, we don’t need the old assumptions, excuses, and habits. We need to invite God to transform our lives.

Paul refers to “special days, months, seasons, and years” because many of the people to whom he was speaking were trying to revert to the old laws and traditions by which they had once adamantly lived. Those laws and traditions served a purpose. In fact, they were biblical. The issue is they were remnants. They had been replaced with the new covenant of a personal relationship with Jesus. It was no longer essential to live under the covenant of the Old Testament, because since Jesus came to earth and died, making the way for the Holy Spirit, helping us with life on earth in preparation for eternal life, the new covenant prevails.

Without intentional effort, we will not grow forward. We will default to what is comfortable to us. We gravitate to what we know. When we begin a relationship with Jesus, even when we want to leave our former lives behind, even when we have a burning desire to continually seek and obey God, we will struggle in at least some areas of life. What we’ve been taught and have practiced our entire lives up to the point we begin a relationship with God is difficult to reverse or replace.

In what areas do you most struggle to grow spiritually?

Perhaps you can think of people who seem consistent in their faith in many ways, but there’s that one area that doesn’t seem to fit. You don’t understand how they haven’t grown in that one area. It’s so obvious to you. It’s not an area in which you struggle. You likely have your own.

We can easily compare ourselves to others and rationalize that “at least I’m better than _______”! (We can also compare ourselves to others and rationalize that we’ll never measure up to someone.) But God doesn’t measure you against anyone else. You have a purpose to fulfill in this season of life as well as in life overall, and only you can fulfill the specific purpose he has for you. He brings people into your life not to compare yourself to but to walk alongside you. And everyone will not help you grow. Consider several verses further along in Galatians 4:

Those people are working hard to persuade you, but this is not good for you. They want to persuade you to turn against us and follow only them. It is good for people to show interest in you, but only if their purpose is good. This is always true, not just when I am with you. My little children, again I feel the pain of childbirth for you until you truly become like Christ. (Galatians 4:17-19)

Consider who is in your life who pours into you in ways that pull you away from God. (Keep in mind anyone who is not intentionally helping you grow toward God is pulling you away from God. There is no neutrality.)

Consider who is in your life who pours into you in ways that help you grow toward God.

Who are you pouring into right now, helping her grow toward God?

How might you be pulling someone away from God?

Don’t simply skim over these questions. Be honest with yourself. Let God reveal the reality of your relationships. Let God reveal the reality of your priorities. Let God reveal the truth of your faith. He longs for you to long for him in this season – and in every season of your life. Your enthusiasm will ebb and flow, but your commitment to God isn’t about feelings. God is passionately pursuing you. Who or what are you passionately pursuing?

Pure Growth: Feasting on Figs

As Jesus and his followers were coming closer to Jerusalem, they came to the towns of Bethphage and Bethany near the Mount of Olives. From there Jesus sent two of his followers and said to them, “Go to the town you can see there. When you enter it, you will quickly find a colt tied, which no one has ever ridden. Untie it and bring it here to me. If anyone asks you why you are doing this, tell him its Master needs the colt, and he will send it at once.” The followers went into the town, found a colt tied in the street near the door of a house, and untied it. Some people were standing there and asked, “What are you doing? Why are you untying that colt?” The followers answered the way Jesus told them to answer, and the people let them take the colt. They brought the colt to Jesus and put their coats on it, and Jesus sat on it. Many people spread their coats on the road. Others cut branches in the fields and spread them on the road. The people were walking ahead of Jesus and behind him, shouting,

“Praise God! God bless the One who comes in the name of the Lord! God bless the kingdom of our father David! That kingdom is coming! Praise to God in heaven!”

Jesus entered Jerusalem and went into the Temple. After he had looked at everything, since it was already late, he went out to Bethany with the twelve apostles. The next day as Jesus was leaving Bethany, he became hungry. Seeing a fig tree in leaf from far away, he went to see if it had any figs on it. But he found no figs, only leaves, because it was not the right season for figs. So Jesus said to the tree, “May no one ever eat fruit from you again.” And Jesus’ followers heard him say this.

The next morning as Jesus was passing by with his followers, they saw the fig tree dry and dead, even to the roots. Peter remembered the tree and said to Jesus, “Teacher, look! The fig tree you cursed is dry and dead!” Jesus answered, “Have faith in God. I tell you the truth, you can say to this mountain, ‘Go, fall into the sea.’ And if you have no doubts in your mind and believe that what you say will happen, God will do it for you. So I tell you to believe that you have received the things you ask for in prayer, and God will give them to you. When you are praying, if you are angry with someone, forgive him so that your Father in heaven will also forgive your sins. (But if you don’t forgive other people, then your Father in heaven will not forgive your sins.)” Mark 11

Jesus checked the fig tree for figs, despite figs not being in season, and cursed the fig tree to unproductiveness. Doesn’t that seem odd? First, why would Jesus even have to check the fig tree? Surely he already knew there were no figs on the tree. Second, why would he curse something for being unproductive when it wasn’t the season for being productive? It might be tempting to look at these verses and assume Jesus is being selfish, because he is hungry and cannot satisfy his hunger with figs, and unreasonable, because he shouldn’t have expected the plant to be productive in the current season. But Jesus is neither selfish nor unreasonable.

I’ve kept the verses about the fig tree within the context of Mark 11 in its entirety for a purpose. It’s essential to keep Scripture in the context in which it is found.

Consider the timing of Jesus cursing the fig tree. He had entered Jerusalem to recognition, praise, and fanfare. He then entered to the Temple. Matthew 21 provides more details about what happened:

Jesus went into the Temple and threw out all the people who were buying and selling there. He turned over the tables of those who were exchanging different kinds of money, and he upset the benches of those who were selling doves. Jesus said to all the people there, “It is written in the Scriptures, ‘My Temple will be called a house for prayer.’ But you are changing it into a hideout for robbers.’”

The blind and crippled people came to Jesus in the Temple, and he healed them. The leading priests and the teachers of the law saw that Jesus was doing wonderful things and that the children were praising him in the Temple, saying, “Praise to the Son of David.” All these things made the priests and the teachers of the law very angry.

They asked Jesus, “Do you hear the things these children are saying?”

Jesus answered, “Yes. Haven’t you read in the Scriptures, ‘You have taught children and babies to sing praises’?” Then Jesus left and went out of the city to Bethany, where he spent the night. (Matthew 21:12-17)

After the exultation of followers praising Jesus as the Messiah, he encountered people going against his will and disrespecting God’s house. Jesus was displeased with people who should have known better and been more faithful to keep God’s Word.

The fig tree often represents the nation of Israel in God’s Word. The curse for unproductiveness indicates a displeasure in Israel’s spiritual state. The nation of Israel as a whole was not recognizing Jesus as the Messiah. It was not going to produce fruit through a season of unbelief. Therefore, it’s growth would be stunted.

This came as no surprise to Jesus, of course. Jesus was God in flesh, so he still knew all even when in human form. However, he would still be disappointed to personally encounter wickedness, betrayal, and faithlessness. It wouldn’t have been unreasonable for the fig tree to be productive, because from a distance, Jesus saw a fig tree “in leaf.” Leaves grow prior to the fruit, and figs are actually a similar color to the leaves until they completely ripen, so it wouldn’t have been unreasonable to assume a leafy fig tree would have figs on it. Obviously, this was not the case. Jesus stated the fig tree wasn’t in the right season to produce figs. In other words, the nation of Israel will not be productive in this season. Jesus already knew what he would encounter while on earth. He would encounter a nation who would refuse to welcome him and grow in faith. Faith among the state of Israel would be stunted.

With God, there is always hope. When Peter speaks to Jesus about the dead fig tree the following day (a fig tree would typically take longer than one day to be completely “dry and dead”), Jesus in essence says nothing is impossible with God, including healing and productivity. Israel can still become a faithful people. Anyone, despite a rejection of, failure to recognize, or disobedience to God, can be restored to God. Faith, prayer, and forgiveness is all that is required to reestablish healthy, productive, fruit-producing spiritual growth.

What do you need to do to increase spiritual productivity in your life right now?

Matthew 21 and Mark 11 are not the only places in Scripture where figs are mentioned.

What do you learn from the following verses that mention figs?

Jesus told this story: “A man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard. He came looking for some fruit on the tree, but he found none. So the man said to his gardener, ‘I have been looking for fruit on this tree for three years, but I never find any. Cut it down. Why should it waste the ground?’ But the servant answered, ‘Master, let the tree have one more year to produce fruit. Let me dig up the dirt around it and put on some fertilizer. If the tree produces fruit next year, good. But if not, you can cut it down.’” (Luke 13:6-9)

Then Jesus told this story: “Look at the fig tree and all the other trees. When their leaves appear, you know that summer is near. In the same way, when you see these things happening, you will know that God’s kingdom is near. I tell you the truth, all these things will happen while the people of this time are still living. Earth and sky will be destroyed, but the words I have spoken will never be destroyed.” (Luke 21:29-33)

“At that time, the sign of the Son of Man will appear in the sky. Then all the peoples of the world will cry. They will see the Son of Man coming on clouds in the sky with great power and glory. He will use a loud trumpet to send his angels all around the earth, and they will gather his chosen people from every part of the world. Learn a lesson from the fig tree: When its branches become green and soft and new leaves appear, you know summer is near. In the same way, when you see all these things happening, you will know that the time is near, ready to come. I tell you the truth, all these things will happen while the people of this time are still living. Earth and sky will be destroyed, but the words I have said will never be destroyed.” (Matthew 24:30-35)

Be faithful. Be attentive. Be productive.

Pure Growth: Expectations of Gardening

I have noticed that people who plow evil and plant trouble, harvest it. (Job 4:8)

When our girls were young, we decided to plant a garden. Tim’s grandpa was an avid gardener. His garden was so large, I think I’d classify him as a farmer more than a gardener. PaPa and Mother B planted enough seeds to harvest and can enough vegetables to supply their three grown daughters and their families – not to mention PaPa and Mother B themselves – for the upcoming year. By the time I married into the family, PaPa was suffering from arthritis and couldn’t garden any longer, but I still reaped the benefits of his work. Those last few pints and quarts were saved for special occasions and every mouthful was savored.

Even though I was raised on a farm, I didn’t do much gardening. Our time was spent in the larger fields with the big equipment which speeds up the planting, plowing, weeding, and harvesting processes. However, my grandpa gardened a little after he turned the farm over to my dad and his secondary career of carpentry slowed down. Grandpa had a huge strawberry patch. Strawberries are certainly not the easiest plant to grow. They’re a bit temperamental. But I certainly enjoyed the fruit of Grandpa’s labor!

When we plant our first garden, Caitlin was old enough to help. Tim used his PaPa’s hand plow to break up the soil. Caitlin pushed on the lower bar as Tim did the heavy work from behind her. They planned how many rows they’d have, talked about what would grow best in our soil, what vegetables to place next to each other, when each would be ready for harvest, and many more details. We went to the local garden shop to pick out the seeds. The seeds look nothing like the vegetable it would grow into, but we knew they’d change. We had to start somewhere.

Each seed was planted at the recommended depth and spacing. The ground was watered, and then it was time to wait. We watched the garden and checked for green shoots poking through the ground. As they did, we identified each plant. Again, the plants looked nothing like the fruit they would eventually produce, but we could identify them simply because of the location. Each row was marked by the name of what was planted. It was still a long time before the plants began to resemble something we could easily identify, but we trusted the seeds we planted would produce what they were intended to produce. Corn didn’t produce green beans. Green beans didn’t produce potatoes. Potatoes didn’t produce lettuce. We enjoyed the vegetables we had planned to enjoy.

We reap what we sow. The principle is a familiar one, and Scripture is clear:

God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. (Galatians 6:7-8)

Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. (2 Corinthians 9:6)

When we think of reaping and sowing we think we’ll be able to identify the fruit of what we’re doing right away. But think about the seeds we planted in the garden. We trusted they would grow into what we hoped, but it’s possible seeds could have been mixed up in the store. We needed to know how to identify the potential fruit by knowing the seed that corresponds to it. If we simply believe someone as he tells us “Plant this and it will become a tomato,” we might end up with a tangle of pumpkin vines consuming our garden. Likewise, we must discern what we’re spiritually planting in our lives. Even when an idea sounds good, we need to check it with God’s Word. We need to make sure it’s the right time and place of planting for us, because what season he calls one person into will not match another person’s. His plan is specific, personal, and perfect, so we are wise to follow with attention and intention.

We also think we’ll reap what we sow as if it’s an instant grow capsule. We expect to drop the seed in warm water and – wa-la! – instant fruit in our lives! But our spiritual lives go through seasons, and the development of fruit in our lives requires the progression of seasons. God gives us glimpses of fruit in our lives here on earth, but we won’t see the full blossoming of all fruit until the end of our lives. Eternity reveals our fruit. And just to be clear, I’m not saying if you’re a good person and do good things, your fruit will be fully developed when you die. I’m not saying if you’ve done bad things, there is no hope for a fruitful harvest. God knows our hearts. He knows our motives. He knows our priorities. Most important, he knows our relationship with him, which is what will ultimately matter. He knows if we’ve done good things with or without him. He knows how we’ve relied or avoided him when we’ve made bad choices. He doesn’t guide us through a legalistic life of “do good/avoid bad” requirements. He invites us to draw close to him. As we’re intimate with God, we don’t need to respond in our own values and priorities. His ways consume our ways, and he gives us the Holy Spirit to help us discern how we’re to respond in obedience. He takes care of weaving all the details together.

The following fruit of the Spirit is referred to in Galatians 5:22. Which have you mastered to perfection?

  • Love
  • Joy
  • Peace
  • Patience
  • Kindness
  • Goodness
  • Faithfulness
  • Gentleness
  • Self-control

Continue to invite God to be the gardener of your life. He yields the best results – better than you can imagine!

I am the true vine; my Father is the gardener. (John 15:1)

Pure Growth: Storms of Life

If clouds are full of rain, they will shower on the earth. A tree can fall to the north or south, but it will stay where it falls. Those who wait for perfect weather will never plant seeds; those who look at every cloud will never harvest crops. You don’t know where the wind will blow, and you don’t know how a baby grows inside the mother. In the same way, you don’t know what God is doing, or how he created everything. (Ecclesiastes 11:3-5)

Weather isn’t always exactly the way I prefer. Neither is life. I like some seasons and perspectives better than others. I can even experience a similar circumstance over time and situations and my response differs.

I’ve watched the wall of rain move across the field toward me when I was growing up on the farm. I’ve seen looming, dark clouds in front of me as I’ve driven. I’ve watched the lightning in the clouds below me as I’ve flown in planes.

There are many possible perspectives of storms.

Typically, I appreciate the beauty more when I know I’m out of the storm’s way. I respect storms more than I fear them, but I have to admit there is more anxiety when I know I’m about to enter a storm and more appreciative once I’ve come through one. And when I’m in the middle of it? Well, it depends.

Living in central Illinois, there have been many times I’ve retreated to the basement because of tornado warnings. When a major storm hit while I was driving toward my parents’ house, I didn’t realize the severity until a large tree limb flew through the air across my path, narrowly missing my vehicle.

Perhaps the scariest storms have been those I’ve encountered where I’m less familiar with my surroundings. The sky looks different, the storm moves in unexpected directions, and I’m not sure of my options. Yet once the storm passes, there’s a sigh of relief. There’s sometimes a rainbow of celebration. There’s gratitude for survival, nourishing rain, limited damage. The after-the-storm experience differs from the during-the-storm experience, which differs from the before-the-storm experience.

How have you experienced stages of storms in your life?

A friend recently asked for my advice about a situation, and when I told her she needed to be honest in a relationship, she responded with apprehension – even fear – of what might happen as a result. Her mind flew through “what ifs.” She transformed the possibility of a storm into a pending storm warning of epic proportions. I couldn’t assure her the worst case scenario wouldn’t happen. All I could do is agree it was one possibility but that there were others as well. I shared that the storm usually looks worse when we’re looking at it looming on the horizon. But storms don’t always respond the way we expect. Sometimes they intensify, but often times, they weaken or change direction.

The point wasn’t “what if.” She had no control over the what if. She had control over what is and what should be. The storm wasn’t the issue. It was distracting her. The issue was her relationship.

What storm are you anticipating right now?

Is it distracting you from the real issue?

What is your current “what is” and “what should be,” and how will you respond?

When you’re in the middle of the storm, your perspective is again clouded, perhaps completely blocked. You might become disoriented. You might need to retreat to a safe place through the crisis, or you might need to risk danger in order to help someone or to get to a better place.

Once the storm passes, your perspective might become distorted again. Sunlight is blinding. You might be so distracted by the brightness of what’s going on around you that you neglect to take care of storm clean-up or preparation.

There is always a storm somewhere around you. It might be looming, or you might be in the middle of it. A storm might have just passed. In most cases, more than one will be true at the same time.

How you see the storm uses your limited perspective. Widen your view. God sees all the storms at once and sees your life, relationships, and growth with a majestic wide-angle lens. Consider the context of your storms. You won’t be able to fully experience God’s perspective, but you can at least respect that your view is limited and God’s is not.

You can trust that God knows where the storm is. He has a purpose not only in the storm but in where you are in relation to the storm. He wants you to trust him. He wants you to respond in a way that glorifies him. He is the source of your purpose, and his purpose is pure.

The storm comes from where it was stored; the cold comes with the strong winds. (Job 37:9)

Pure Growth: The Comfort of Routine

People may make plans in their minds, but the Lord decides what they will do. (Proverbs 16:9)

Is what you’re currently doing keeping you from doing something better for God?

It’s easy to get comfortable on the couch. Not an actual couch but anywhere that’s a comfortable place for you. It might be a situation in which you’re completely relaxed. It’s wherever you’ve become accustomed to and find comfort. It could be a place or position that takes concentration and effort. Perhaps what you’re doing is difficult work. Perhaps it’s sacrificial. It’s likely worthwhile. You might have felt led by God to do what you’re doing.

But is it what you’re supposed to be doing in this season of your life? While there are often common threads throughout your life, details frequently change, because when we’re growing, our lives change. Sometimes there are big changes, and sometimes the changes are more subtle, but change will happen as you grow closer to God, seeking and responding to his will.

Consider how Naaman was unwilling to get outside his comfort zone. He was the commander of an army. He was mighty and brave and had great respect for God. He wanted to be healed of a skin disease.

Elisha sent Naaman a messenger who said, “Go and wash in the Jordan River seven times. Then your skin will be healed, and you will be clean.”

Naaman became angry and left. He said, “I thought Elisha would surely come out and stand before me and call on the name of the Lord his God. I thought he would wave his hand over the place and heal the disease.The Abana and the Pharpar, the rivers of Damascus, are better than all the waters of Israel. Why can’t I wash in them and become clean?” So Naaman went away very angry.

Naaman’s servants came near and said to him, “My father, if the prophet had told you to do some great thing, wouldn’t you have done it? Doesn’t it make more sense just to do it? After all, he only told you, ‘Wash, and you will be clean.’ ” So Naaman went down and dipped in the Jordan seven times, just as Elisha had said. Then his skin became new again, like the skin of a child. And he was clean. (2 Kings 5:10-14)

Naaman was asked to do something out of the ordinary. God’s response wasn’t what he expected it to be, and he didn’t like it.

How have you expected a particular response from God but was given a different solution or path?

Perhaps you missed the best solution because you were so intent on what you thought the provision or guidance from God would be.

You don’t have to be a spiritual superstar to be required to get out of your comfort zone. If you’re a Christ-follower, you will be asked – required – to get out of your comfort zone. If you were allowed to stay right where you are, what kind of faith would you develop? Just because you stepped out of your comfort zone once to get to where you are doesn’t mean you’ll get to stay there forever. God is concerned about your relationship with him, not your comfort level. He wants you to trust him through every curve, turn, detour and shortcut.

How is God prompting you out of your comfort zone in this season of your life?

You might not recognize it right away. You’ll need to ask him to soften your heart and sharpen your senses so you can hear and see him more clearly. Know your comfort zones, and consider the following possibilities.

  • Walk across the room to talk to someone you would normally ignore.
  • Invite your neighbor over for coffee or a meal.
  • Take a co-worker to lunch.
  • Support a new worship service or small group at church because it reaches people unlike you (which is why you don’t like it).
  • Respectfully ask your pastor a question about an application of Scripture he teaches when the way it’s being applied cautions you.
  • Say “no” to yet another year in the same ministry so you can explore another ministry about which you’ve felt a stirring passion or interest.
  • Reduce your hours at work (and make financial adjustments) when prodded to spend more time with your children or aging parents.

God wants you off the spiritual couch. Move. You’ll thank him in the long run.

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