Do you spend more time
- thinking or worrying about what people are or might be saying about you?
- thinking about what is true about you?
Hint: Spending time and energy on the second option is much more beneficial. It will help you grow. It will humble you. It will ease your defenses and diminish your rationalizations. It will truth-check you and confront the issues you need to face in order to become the person God intends you to become.