Milkshakes, Hugs, and God

Milkshakes, Hugs, and God

I regularly travel, and since I live 90 miles from the airport, I usually stop close to the airport on my way home so I can get a fountain drink. Sometimes I’ll splurge and treat myself to a chocolate milkshake at Steak ‘n’ Shake. On one of those milkshake days, I missed the exit to Steak ‘n’ Shake. Bummer. But then I remembered there was a Steak ‘n’ Shake at another exit. I had never been there, but I was fairly sure I’d seen the sign.

Yes, it was there – but it definitely was not in a great part of the city. It looked old and dirty. I decided to take the drive-thru option (as if my milkshake would be a little less germ-infested if I didn’t order it inside!). Bummer. The drive-thru was packed. The inside didn’t look at crowded, so I quickly parked and made my way inside, which was every bit as filthy as I imagined. But I wanted my milkshake!

As I was waiting, a man at the end of the counter caught my attention. He wasn’t doing anything to get my attention; in fact, he probably didn’t even notice me – but I noticed him. He was even dirtier than the restaurant. It was been-there-a-long-time dirt. He looked weathered, tired, and old. But I felt a prompting…to walk over and hug him.

I’m not a germaphobe, but I’m also not fond of hugging strangers – particularly dirty older men. I started to get a bit anxious – and irritated my chocolate milkshake wasn’t ready. After all, several minutes had passed. I know the milkshakes are hand-dipped, but come on! The prompting got stronger and more persistent, and I knew it was God. I wasn’t obedient. In fact, I argued with him for a few minutes. I started to test and rationalize and finally said (not aloud), “Okay, I’m watching the clock. If my milkshake isn’t ready in three minutes, I’ll give him a hug.” Three minutes passed. No milkshake. I thought of the next test I could conjure up…but at that moment, I caught the man’s eyes. I knew.

I walked over to him and quietly fumbled with my words, something like, “Sir, I know this sounds strange, but I’m supposed to give you a hug.”

In that moment his eyes lit up and sparkled. He grinned enormously, which smoothed his filthy wrinkles, and he stretched his arms wide. I didn’t hesitate. We embraced for what seemed like a half minute and then smiled at each other. I told him to have a great evening and to remember God loves him. He smiled and nodded. I turned around and saw my milkshake sitting on the counter.

As I left, I didn’t feel dirty at all. In fact, I felt quite refreshed. And I was grateful to be in the wrong place at the right time.

Then Jesus said, “Which one of these three men do you think was a neighbor to the man who was attacked by the robbers?” The expert on the law answered, “The one who showed him mercy.” Jesus said to him, “Then go and do what he did.” Luke 10:36-27 (NCV)

2 thoughts on “Milkshakes, Hugs, and God

  1. Took me a while to find your blog.. Almost forgot about it because I haven’t been on facebook. Just checked it out. I read this about hugs. I love it! So glad you followed what you were led to do! I think it blessed both the man and you. God bless, Charla

  2. I will write something after I wipe the tears from my eyes. Oh, well, nothing I say can beat what God said to you. Awesome to love our God and do His bidding. Joyce

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